Now I’d love to say that everyone of you out there are good people, but good people are aware of their goodness, but they don’t go around bragging about it. Great people are not aware of how great they are, and they just go about doing their kind and good ways. Bad people, on the other hand, are not aware of the evil that they epitomize, and yet they go around living thinking that they are actually good!
I’m shaking my head at this, but this is human reality. And as a “Relationship Design” guru I encounter this more then I wish to. And this is the exact same reality that goes with good boyfriends, great boyfriends, and douchebag boyfriends who have made one too many female hearts suffer.
Many of these unfortunate girlfriends realize a little too late that they are, indeed, dating a big *ss D-bag. Others, worse, realize this fact but choose to ignore in the name of the big L. But how about if the man himself gets to realize and understand just how big a jerk he is? Wouldn’t that save many women from heartaches? For more advice, don’t hesitate to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org.
If you’re reading this, with the intention of finding out whether you’re a bad boyfriend or a really bad boyfriend, I commend you for you are one step closer to becoming less of a bad boyfriend. I also would like to assure you that the sooner you realize and accept this, the more thankful your girlfriend will be.
So, are you a douchebag or are you a douchebag? Ask yourself these questions to learn if you are. Do you brag about the women you flirt with, hook up with, and probably cheat with? You don’t even care about who you tell it to and how they might spill your dirty beans to your girlfriend. All you do is just go about your wicked, cheating ways without a care in the world, or to how your girlfriend feels.
Do you act superior over your girlfriend? You decide for her, you tell her what to do and what not to do, basically you are living her life for her. It manifests through the simple stuff like ordering for her when she didn’t ask you to, deciding on an invite for the both of you without consulting, or even telling you which jobs you should take and which ones you shouldn’t.
Maybe you show up to her only when you want to? You just disappear when she’s inconvenient for you, and you magically reappear when you’re feeling lonely. You don’t even care inform her about anything that’s happening around you; heck, not even your whereabouts. Poor girl has to wait around when you’re coming over again! Visit PUA website now!
Or do you disrespect her parents? This is horrible behavior that even your own parents would hate you about. There is no excuse for being disrespectful to elders; there just is none. Just because they’re not your parents doesn’t mean you can do whatever you feel like doing. Know your boundaries.
A big giveaway that you’re a douchebag is if you hit her. Domestic violence and abuse are inexcusable. There is no easy, sane, or logical explanation that makes physical aggression especially against a woman okay. Any man who commits this isn’t just a douchebag; he’s a complete coward and an animal!
If you answered “Yes” to at least one of these things! Then you know it’s true. Just be careful that you can’t take back this behaviour; she may be cheating already. 
November 11, 2013